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I’ve never liked commitment, or should I say I’ve always been afraid of relationships. Every time any of my guys got into one, I’d be so disappointed and amused. The idea of being stuck with one person for the rest of your life or for a long ass time always sounded boring and suffocating to me.
But then i et my current girlfriend, and this babe made me fall in love like a mad man, e be like say she use jazz. We met at Shiro two years ago at a friend’s birthday dinner. She came in late that night, and when she walked in she stole my heart. She’s gorgeous, funny, super smart and knows how to put me in check like no other person can so I caved in.
It’s been two years into a proper relationship, we even live together and have met each other’s families. I really love her. At least I thought I did enough until a silly fantasy put me in trouble.
One Friday night, I was chilling with my guys at our usual spot in Lekki when one of them told us his threesome experience and at first it sounded like a taboo to some of us but as he broke it down, it started sounding mad hot. I went home to my babe that night and the whole time we were having sex, i kept thinking of what my friend said.
When we finished and were cuddled up, I asked her if she’d ever have a threesome and she said yes. At first i thought she was joking, but the next day i asked her again and she said she wasn’t, that she had actually done it before in her university days.
I was so happy, shamelessly because I never imagined my serious banker girlfriend to be that freaky. After she gisted me about her experience, we both agreed that we’d do it to celebrate our 3rd year anniversary together.
Before you ask about marriage, that’s another thing that’s sweet about our relationship…we both don’t want it. But two months ago, I broke the agreement and did it with my cousin and her best friend.
I’m disgusted with myself. My cousin came over to our house one weekend cause she was attending a work seminar and she invited her friend over to say Hi while my babe was on a girl’s night out.
All I remember is we were watching Netflix, and drinking wine and the next thing, her friend came over to me and started getting touchy and I didn’t stop her. She was hitting all the right spots, and my cousin was watching. She joined in and started kissing me and we did it. I was drunk and everything was too steamy to think clearly.
It’s been two months like I said, and I feel very guilty. I don’t want to lose my babe…how do I tell her I cheated on her with my cousin?
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